About Me
I’ve been described as WYSIWYG (wizzywig) – what you see is what you get – and that’s quite true. Presenting myself as a holistic therapist/trainer, I started training as a massage therapist in 2012, and was surprised how much I enjoyed using a completely different skill set to absorb and take on board this form of healing (compared to the office skills I’d worked with previously).
Part of this new learning included familiarising myself with the magic of essential oils, learning to blend them myself, and how they can be used in self-healing as well as around the home. Along my path, I also developed a curiosity in crystals so once again my curiosity got the better of me and I opted to complete training in how to use them as a healing/balancing tool as well as adapting them to make jewellery.
I am pleased to say I am qualified to L3 in Swedish Massage, Aromatherapy Massage, Indian Head Massage and also offer Deep Tissue massage treatments.
I also enjoy working with the magical properties of crystals to offer Healing and Chakra Balancing treatments with Crystals. Again, in 2012, having realised the word “healing” was in my thoughts on a regular basis, I started to develop a curiosity in Reiki and energy healing, so went on to learn First Degree Traditional Usui Reiki and eventually decided to deepen my experience of energy healing and opted to train as Third Degree Traditional Usui Reiki Master & Teacher.
Reiki became one of the loves of my life and is an incredible tool for healing the self and others, as well as pets It also has uses in every day life, for example healing ‘tired’ plants! I continue to be curious about Reiki and am now pleased to be able to offer training in Usui (r) Holy Fire Reiki and Usui (r) Holy Fire Karuna Reiki.
Presenting myself as a Trainer, I can offer you authenticity, great depth of life experience, and extensive depth of work experience (including as a trainer and manager in mainly I.T. based roles). I’m also pleased to offer a high level of commitment to quality and transparency and am formally qualified to teach people over the age of 16 years.
In addition, I am registered with the International Centre for Reiki Training who set standards of practice for Reiki and am also registered as a Gold Member and Training Provider with the International Guild of Complementary Therapists (IGCT) who are an international accreditation board for holistic training providers.
My Reiki Journey (so far)
My journey with Reiki started in 2012 when having been drawn to the word healing for some time, my curiosity got the better of me and I decided to study Usui Reiki Level 1 which is non-practitioner but can be used for self-healing as well as with friends/family and pets.
“OK so what’s next? Where do I go?” were the thoughts that crossed my mind and having done some research on things to look for, I ended up phoning some teachers in the Weston-super-Mare area, then arranged to meet them in person for a brief chat. Intrigued and excited, I decided to book onto a one day training course. I practised self-healing quite regularly after that day, read a few books from time to time and spoke to one or two people. It took me five years along with lots of self-healing and soul searching before I felt drawn to and able to become a Reiki Master Teacher in March 2017. I became so full of questions and the following are some things I’ve learned along the way:-
| What suits you?: Different books and different people may tell you different things which can be very frustrating and confusing so go with what sits most comfortably on your own shoulders (even if you need to put your query on the backburner and revisit it another day). |
| If you feel isolated on your path, try to talk to someone. In Weston-Super-Mare there’s group of like-minded folks called Positive Living Group (used to be Spiritual Coffee) which meets on the first Tuesday of each month, in the Stables Games Room (used to be The Market House) on the High Street, across from The Playhouse. (Positive Living Group is a nationwide network so there may be one near your home too). |
| Choosing the right teacher is a very important decision – perhaps talk to more than one trainer. Things you need to consider are the training format. Consider what apres-training support is available and whether it’s chargeable. Ask the teacher about their journey, how long it took them to move between Level 1 and Master/Teacher – gauge whether you can relate to and work with them. |
| A Reiki Master Teacher is someone who has studied Reiki to Master level (i.e. the third degree) and who has (in addition) studied the second part of the third degree i.e. they have trained to teach Reiki. (It may be said that Reiki is their Master; it does not mean they are a student’s Master, simply that they are the student’s teacher). NB: Not all Reiki Masters choose to become trainers/teachers. |
| Teacher for life? A Reiki Master Teacher may not be your Teacher for life. It makes sense for a student to try to work with one teacher on their path because you both grow together but if a student is considering further training and following discussion with their current teacher has any uncertainty about working with them again, there is no reason they should not train with someone else. For example, when I decided to train as an Usui Reiki Practitioner, I realised I needed a different pace of learning as a one day course was not enough for me. I recognised a two day course would be more appropriate for me hence I opted to work with a different Reiki Trainer. |
| Forgiveness: It is vitally important to learn forgiveness (of yourself and others) and the need for each of us to learn to love ourselves first because at the end of the day, if we don’t, we won’t really be able to take care of or love anyone else. If you don’t learn to let go of a niggle, it’ll come back to you in different ways until you release it. |
| So why choose Reiki? Reiki is a gently powerful healing tool that isn’t just a way of finding deep peace and relaxation; it doesn’t just heal poor health; it’s not just a way to make money – it can be life changing. |
| Do I really need to be a vegetarian/vegan to study Reiki? From personal experience as well as checking with the United Kingdom Reiki Federation, the Complementary Therapists Association and the International Centre for Reiki Training, I can tell you it is not true to say a student needs to be a vegetarian/vegan before studying Reiki. (However, some trainers suggest you may like to try to reduce/eliminate smoking, drinking alcohol or eating meat during the 21 day cleanse). |
| Which style of Reiki shall I learn? When considering what style of Reiki to train in (e.g. Angelic Reiki, Usui Reiki, Karuna Reiki, Dragon Reiki etc), remember to select the style that you are drawn to rather than what someone else suggests to you. Also, please remember there is only one source. |
| Placement/Ignition (same function as an attunement)This prepares you to be able to channel Reiki healing energy and stimulates your physical, spiritual, emotional and energetic bodies, promoting personal growth on all levels. The placement/ignition system practiced in Holy Fire® III Reiki makes teaching Reiki easier as you do not need class time to demonstrate and practice attunements. It also empowers the symbols with more effective healing energy. Please follow this link for more information regarding attunements Permalink: https://www.rosemarybridgewater.com/reiki-attunement…self-attunements/ |
| Self Attunement This is achievable but given pursuing a spiritual path and growing forward can inspire a whole host of feelings and emotions (as well as visual experiences), you may want to consider investing in a structured training course simply because you will have support readily available for any questions that arise. I have to admit I’m truly pleased I followed structured training courses that offered free follow-up support so I knew where to go to at those times I felt confused or uncertain about what my experience was telling me. |
| Symbols:Symbols are used in Reiki to connect with different kinds of Reiki energy and are a way to connect with Source. However, if a person doesn’t like the idea of symbols, they are not necessary to use with Reiki as in Reiki I there are no symbols. (Keep in mind that symbols are part of Christianity. The fish and the cross are Christian symbols. Note also that Catholics make the sign of the cross over their chests for protection and to become empowered with Christ.) |
My Reiki journey continues – learning to teach it doesn’t mean the end by any stretch of the imagination. Reiki encourages us to release toxins from our lives, be that negative thoughts, poor diets and such like. Over time, Reiki has helped me become a calmer, kinder, more tolerant and less judgmental person … I’m so glad I discovered it.
Please don’t hesitate to contact me if you’ve got any queries.